You could join the FPH clan. It's been around since AoM, and is both the first AoM clan and the first AoE3 clan. We inspired the inclusion of the FPH cheat unit in AoM. We're a close nit, generally friendly community. We're both a clan centered around AoE3 and a community clan. As such, the forums are very active. We don't have ranks or anything, and every templar is pretty much equal. The link is in my sig.
SEXITUP.Former Leader of the FPH Clan
Acting-President of AoMH