This is a RTS in all aspects of the wording, it is a real time game where strat is req in some if not all parts of the game.
Now, you're comparing two different types of RTS, Empire Earth, and AOE3. You could say that Halo and GTA or say, Tanks on the wii are both/all FPS but they really aren't the same also. Each game in the genre doesn't have to follow the same frame by frame set up. AOE2 was a faster moving game where your villies were 50 food among other factors.
While yes; AOE3 is a slower moving game than the 2 you mentioned, we have to look at two more things before you can charge it like you did.
1.) AOE is NOT a turn based game
2.) Yes, ports aren't the most balenced civ right now; rather they are the worst.
If you want a game with more APS or CPS, go play starcraft or Empire Earth like you talked about. AOE2 frankly isn't that different from AOE3, but 2D, with different game play.
If you are reading this, I'm just wasting your time.
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