This might strike you all as an odd change of pace, but I could do with some additional advice, soooo...
Two girls. One with average looks who I'm not really physically attracted to. She's not ugly at all, just... average. The other very hot and good looking, the kind you want to rest your eyes on for hours.
First one is basically a soul match for my personality. We fit so well together that I can honestly see myself being with her for the rest of my life. Second one is cute and intelligent and all, but nothing exceptional (by my ridiculously high standards).
I'm genuinely in love with the first girl, yet sexually attracted to the other one. I know that does not correlate with how good they are in the bed, but still...
I guess what I'm really looking for here is advice on how to be less shallow with the first girl. I need more of that I-don't-give-a-shite-what-people-think-because-I-love-her attitude. She has already confessed her love to me, so I need to make my move soon. I can't help being nice and loving to the other girl as well, so I'm afraid she might be falling for me, too...
They don't know of each other yet. I'm painfully aware that I will probably lose both if I can't make up my mind soon.
[This message has been edited by oliver (edited 07-01-2010 @ 05:48 AM).]