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posted 04-15-10 01:56 AM EDT (US)   
Hey, guiz, I know you don't like me and all, and I'm kind of a pest, but can I ask you a favour? (Scroll down to the line to see the short version. It's important, and damn it I'm being serious.)

My dad is in the hospital in a coma after two weeks of pneumonia and congestive heart failure. While they were trying to treat in him ER, he stopped breathing for 15 minutes - and that's never good. Now he's sitting in a bed in the ICU, just kinda lying there, maybe moving his head or legs, or trying to open his eyelids.

It's only two, going on three days into his coma, but I want to ask you to pray for my father's speedy and full recovery. Or if you don't pray, could you just hope for the best for him or something?

He's the best friend I have in the world. I can talk to him about many things (not everything, he is my dad, of course), I can tease him, I scratch his back and watch old shows with him. I have had many good times with him, and I don't want to stop having them.

And he's pretty much the cornerstone of our lives. He works hard, he drives us about, he helps us whenever he can, he loves God (which we think is a good thing). His family needs and wants him. We love him.

I want him to see my sister and I graduate from college, see us get married, and meet his grandchildren if that ever happens.

And so many other people love him and depend on him. We have had visits from two uncles of mine, at least one cousin, at least three aunts, my sister's boyfriend, two other friends of my sister's, a friend on my mom's, three of my father's co-workers (and friends), one priest, two chaplains, the necessary medical staff of course, and at least one person who I don't know but who probably fits into one of these categories. Many people have prayed for him in his room, outside of his room, and on the Internet.

Hopefully I needn't tell you that there've been a lot of tears, hugs, and sadness in my family for the past two to three days. We don't want him to die. We don't want him to be a vegetable, or mentally crippled. We want him as we know him, because we need him that way, and we want him that way.

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Please pray for my father's swift and full recovery from his coma, because so many people need him, love him, and depend on him.

Thank you for reading this.

...[T]he least initial deviation from the truth is multiplied later a thousandfold. -Aristotle, De Caelo

On the lips of the catechist the first proclamation must ring out over and over: “Jesus Christ loves you; he gave his life to save you; and now he is living at your side every day to enlighten, strengthen and free you.” - Pope Francis, The Joy of the Gospel

Call me out if I fail or seem to fail to live up to either of these. Either I will learn something, you will learn something, or we both will.
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posted 04-15-10 02:04 AM EDT (US)     1 / 31  
I'm sorry to hear about the situation. I hope he makes a speedy and full recovery.

posted 04-15-10 03:16 AM EDT (US)     2 / 31  
Damn, sorry to hear that man. I really hope he recovers soon.

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posted 04-15-10 03:19 AM EDT (US)     3 / 31  
Hey-o, I`ll help. My dad and I have about the same relationship and I realize how terrible it would be to lose him.

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posted 04-15-10 03:23 AM EDT (US)     4 / 31  
If I pray, I'll remember to ask for his recovery. It's a sad thing to lose family.

Good grief!
posted 04-15-10 07:01 AM EDT (US)     5 / 31  
Good luck, dude. I cannot imagine how that must be for you.

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posted 04-15-10 07:30 AM EDT (US)     6 / 31  
Very sorry to hear it. May he make a full recovery. These things take time, so have faith.

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posted 04-15-10 08:43 AM EDT (US)     7 / 31  
I'll pray for him. I truly hope that he makes a complete recovery.

On a sort of side note, I'd like to apologize for the way we started off back when you did post here. My fault, not yours, so sorry. Don't make me do that again

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posted 04-15-10 10:12 AM EDT (US)     8 / 31  
Will do. I know we don't always get along but I went through something similar (my Dad passed away from melanoma when I was 18) so if you need someone to talk to don't hesitate to email/im me. All that stuff should be in my profile.

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Your flashes of merriment, that were wont to set the table on a roar?
Not one now, to mock your own grinning?
posted 04-15-10 12:50 PM EDT (US)     9 / 31  
I'm sorry to hear that. My dad also went through something similar. He collapsed in the kitchen one evening and if we hadn't rushed him to the hospital as quickly as we did he wouldn't be alive today. It took several months but he is fully recovered now and a healthier and friendlier dad than ever. You learn to value life from these things.

I understand the trauma you and your family are going through. Stick tight to each other and remind yourself that you are not alone, and hopefully your dad will fight his way back to you.
posted 04-15-10 02:08 PM EDT (US)     10 / 31  
My dog died like last month or so. That was painfull. We had him longer then my sister. I remember when my great grandpa died. I was like seven. My expeirience with a loved one dieing is very limited, though I know how it feel, Doctor.

P.S. BTW, I don't find you annoying in the least.

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[This message has been edited by Old Bachus (edited 04-15-2010 @ 02:09 PM).]

posted 04-15-10 04:30 PM EDT (US)     11 / 31  
So are you going to start posting here again, or is this a one time thing? Because if you are going to start posting again, I'll be your new best friend

That doesn't exactly shoot you to the top of the "Saloon Ladder" (being friends with the bottom rung isn't quite enough...) but still, it's the thought that counts, right?

Keep him from expanding. Keep him scared. Keep him making the wrong type of troops. Control the game, don't react to it.
-Ender_Ward
posted 04-15-10 06:25 PM EDT (US)     12 / 31  
lol

Where be your gibes now? your gambols? your songs?
Your flashes of merriment, that were wont to set the table on a roar?
Not one now, to mock your own grinning?
posted 04-15-10 10:13 PM EDT (US)     13 / 31  
So are you going to start posting here again, or is this a one time thing? Because if you are going to start posting again, I'll be your new best friend
Who, me? Yeah, I kinda come and go. If I don't see anything that interests I stop visiting, only to come back after a while. On the other hand, I haven't visited AoMH since circa early November. Chiefly because I no longer really feel connected with them and I don't play AoM any more. Kinda wished I would have anounced my departure. So many fond memories there .

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>>My work<<

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[This message has been edited by Old Bachus (edited 04-15-2010 @ 10:16 PM).]

posted 04-16-10 08:29 AM EDT (US)     14 / 31  
err, no. Actually, that was directed towards DrWho

Keep him from expanding. Keep him scared. Keep him making the wrong type of troops. Control the game, don't react to it.
-Ender_Ward
posted 04-16-10 01:21 PM EDT (US)     15 / 31  
We can still be pals.

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>>My work<<

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posted 04-17-10 02:51 AM EDT (US)     16 / 31  
Hey, thanks for the consolations and the prayers and all.



I dunno if I'm gonna start posting again regularly - I've had my time swallowed up re-exploring old games I've had, surfing YouTube, playing Team Fortress 2 and Gang Garrison, and praying for some other folks at Catholic Answers - all in an effort to forget about my troubles.

But I do ask for prayers wherever I go, and I do visit and talk to the man in the hospital. I've been to visit him every day with my family, and so far many people have come to visit him and/or called to ask what's going on. He's touched many hearts in his time.

Thanks again for praying... and ah, I guess I could post more often...

I'll try to come back more often - and be less hyper and asinine.

...[T]he least initial deviation from the truth is multiplied later a thousandfold. -Aristotle, De Caelo

On the lips of the catechist the first proclamation must ring out over and over: “Jesus Christ loves you; he gave his life to save you; and now he is living at your side every day to enlighten, strengthen and free you.” - Pope Francis, The Joy of the Gospel

Call me out if I fail or seem to fail to live up to either of these. Either I will learn something, you will learn something, or we both will.
posted 04-22-10 10:38 PM EDT (US)     17 / 31  
...
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... He's gone. Gone home.

...[T]he least initial deviation from the truth is multiplied later a thousandfold. -Aristotle, De Caelo

On the lips of the catechist the first proclamation must ring out over and over: “Jesus Christ loves you; he gave his life to save you; and now he is living at your side every day to enlighten, strengthen and free you.” - Pope Francis, The Joy of the Gospel

Call me out if I fail or seem to fail to live up to either of these. Either I will learn something, you will learn something, or we both will.
posted 04-23-10 02:17 AM EDT (US)     18 / 31  



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"I KNOW SAME HERE! I started dancing in the dollar store when I heard it on april fools day!"-(Anonymous)
"THAT WAS YOU!?!?"-Nikokun
posted 04-23-10 07:09 AM EDT (US)     19 / 31  
Sorry to hear that, stay strong DoctorWho.
posted 04-23-10 08:45 AM EDT (US)     20 / 31  
I'm extremely sorry to hear that.

Keep him from expanding. Keep him scared. Keep him making the wrong type of troops. Control the game, don't react to it.
-Ender_Ward
posted 04-23-10 12:57 PM EDT (US)     21 / 31  
I'm sorry to hear that. My prayers and wishes are with you and your family.

Where be your gibes now? your gambols? your songs?
Your flashes of merriment, that were wont to set the table on a roar?
Not one now, to mock your own grinning?
posted 04-23-10 01:08 PM EDT (US)     22 / 31  
... He's gone. Gone home.
wait do you mean he's now back to conscience and at home or dead? if the last is the case I'm sorry to hear it and I wish you and your family the best of luck
posted 04-23-10 01:31 PM EDT (US)     23 / 31  
I'm sorry to hear that man. Prayers are with you and your family.

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posted 04-23-10 02:30 PM EDT (US)     24 / 31  
I am also confused about the gone. Gone home comment, by gone home I would assume hes better and been released from hospital, although the time-scale makes that seem unlikely.

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posted 04-23-10 02:47 PM EDT (US)     25 / 31  
Common American terminology 'gone home' means gone to heaven/god, means passed away.

Sorry to hear about this Doctor Who, hopefully in time you'll be able to get past it and only remember the good times.

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