Ok. First of all, these are not the only problems but a few you need to work on.
1)Hunting. Send your vill to the opposite side of the animal and shoot back towards your TC or outpost. You shot lots of food nearer to your opponent from your second hunt which could have been on your outpost. When you don't have much hunt to start with do it to your second hunt before you run out of animals near your TC.
2)Your deck. 10 pikes is not a good card. Also, replace the cheaper manors card for 700 wood which is much better for booming. How much do the military cards upgrade by in vanilla? If it is 15% as in TAD you may want to remove 6 lbows or 6 musks and replace them with those.
3)CONSTANT VILL PRODUCTION. There were long periods of the game where you went without producing vills. At one stage you went 5 minutes!! without building a vill. This alone cost you the game. Always keep vills queued.